Part I
Everybody, who passed the period of the childhood, got in the period called teens. That's the period when we face with many problems like: arguments with our parents, first love experience, the false friendships etc. The period when everything changes so fast, for example, we have a particular opinion for something, but after a while we change our opinion into the opposite of the previous one. That means us, as teenagers fight so much to become persons with strong character, and strong point of view, that many times we can't be understood.
Like first problem, there are the parents and their restrictions. When we want to go somewhere, to do something, or to go out and stay longer... they often have "reasons" not to allow that. Sometimes the relationship between teenager and parent can be so strict that instead of listening and respecting, there can be serious arguments and obstinacy from their (not so young) child.
Anyway, I think that this problem can be solved very easy - we should have a sensible conversation with our parents. We should speak our opinion outright, that we want to be understood, that we are not kids anymore so they can control us in every step, and that we like to be happy family with understanding and respect. When we have problems, we should always to tell them about that.
That's the only way we can grow up as intelligent and healthy persons.
Radmila Simeonova
DEMAU "Goso Vikentiev"
Kocani, Macedonia
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